it's my turn
watercolor on paper
I've talked a lot about how we go through seasons in life. Fallow periods and harvesting. Gestation periods and fruition.
Sometimes life is about, say, raising kids, and other aspects are put on the back burner for a while. Sometimes life is about fun and adventure. Sometimes it's about a lot of hard work. If it's time to raise kids, go there. Do it. Put your whole heart into it. The same for adventure or hard work. Love the time for what it is. Use your talents and skills in the service of the life you are living now.
However, I don't think life stays the same. Time turns and one season becomes the next season. The children grow older. The adventures settle down into commitments. The hard work results in bounty that you deserve to enjoy.
I think the key is to know what season you are in currently and to live that season, without yearning for something whose time has not come yet. And we need to let go of the season that has past, not hold onto it out of sentimentality or nostalgia.
It's not only about seasons of life, it's also about growth. New phases. New roles to assume. New jobs to take on.
When it's your turn, when your turn is now, don't waste it. Go all the way in. Live it.